Arachniodes simplicior

3-444.12.12EssenceThis personality wants to be the leader in a family or group of friends. They can be dictatorial, cannot accept contradictions. This comes from a youth that was hard and often violent. They had to learn to control themselves and others and never show emotions or weaknesses.
The opposite is obeying to such a dictatorial personality, living in a situation where the leaders are very strict and harsh when someone does not obey. So they obey and follow the order and rules. Everything looks very nice, perfect, but there is a big suppression, submissiveness.MindThe beginning is nice, idealistic, naive, but later one realises that life is hard and difficult and that one has to fight and become hard.
In the beginning it is show, later fake.
Strong.
Someone who has learned not to show emotions and weaknesses, as they had a youth in a rough environment and had to become hard with a show of being funny, happy, joking.
Immigrants, living in suburbs in hard conditions, but with much dancing and fun, but underneath there is sadness and violence.
Not letting people come emotionally near.
Underdog behaviour .
Difficult to have a real relationship.
Wounded, hurt in pride, and thus becoming hard and tough.
People in fighting sports, kick-boxing, street fighting.
Leader of a gang, big, strong.
Sex hard, short, masculine, pornography.
Simplistic dualistic thinking: black or white, you or me.
Gentle unless being attacked, “don’t fuck me”.
Perfect to have as a friend and protector, but terrible to have as an enemy.
Can only feel threats, no emotions.GeneralSleep: falling asleep difficult; waking often.BodyGeneral: obesity; oedema.
Head: headache, frontal, pressing, hot, > cold applications.
Rectum: constipation; stool hard, like balls; haemorrhoids.