Author: Jan Scholten
They feel central in the family and friends, which give them safety but also responsibility. They have contradicting feelings of at one hand being okay and on the other hand being bad. They try to cover up their feeling of having a low, instinctual and sexual nature by keeping up the appearances. They feel they have a right of being accepted but easily fear being excluded as unattractive or dirty. They have a duality of feeling an outsider and on the other hand a desire to really belong to the family. They work hard to achieve that position but underneath the feeling of being an outsider is often stronger.
Reserved, not showing emotions, cannot be weak.
Risk taking, lack of reflection.
Love relations, sex
They have the ideal of the one, true, real and only love. And when this love is ended it is as if the whole world ends.
Problems with sex, pregnancy, miscarriage, abortion, labour, nursing.
Become part of the group is very important. They fear being or becoming a side figure, an outcast. They fear being excluded, belittled and seen as unattractive unfriendly, having no worth.
Often they do not want to talk about things with their parents. They have to do it on their own, want to be adults who can take care of their own life, even when they can’t.
They are discovering their emotions. That is a difficult thing and not easy to talk about. They fear to be excluded when they show or express their emotions and thus have a tendency to suppress them, even to go so far that they do not know them anymore. Hence the hysterical aspects, the expression of emotions by physical complaints. This suppression can give a problem in the consultations, especially when it is about sexual matters. Also later in life issues of love and sex are problematic to talk about, it makes one weak and vulnerable.
Vertigo: fainting can occur in case of strong emotions and sexuality. A caricatural example is girls of 15 screaming and yelling at a pop concert and fainting.
Delusion must be pure; purity versus dirty.
Dutiful, industrious, perfectionistic, efficient.
Hurry; sensation of guilt.
Confusion, identity, sensation double.
Naïve, lack of reflection, not wanting to know, numb, faint.
Included, versus excluded; < children being bullied.
Reserved, do not show emotions, pain; emotional held in, expressed suddenly.
Sexual: shameless, amorous, nymphomania, lascivious.
Noble, upright, stately, wiseacre; haughty.
Averse answering, being approached.
Cheerful, friendly, restless, exhilaration, excitement.
Confusion, dull, concentration difficult.
Restless, active, fast.
Caring for others obsessed.
Irritable, critical, censorious, insulting.
Ailments from coition, pregnancy, abortion, miscarriage, labour, breast feeding, infertility.
Delusion: poisoned, incurable disease; being in a monastery.
Dreams: stool, urine, urination, toilets.
Sensation: excluded, squeezed; full, dry, congestion; bearing down.
Weather: > warm.
Time: < morning.
Physical: >< motion, < walking, > pressure, > bending, < touch; < stool, < vomit, < urination.
General: anodyne, dissolves hard tumours and swellings; dropsy.
Nervous: neuralgia, numbness, paresthesies, faintness.
Ears: hearing impaired.
Nose: hayfever; smell sensitive.
Throat: thyroid problems; Basedow.
Heart: pain, palpitations < lying left side; pain, pulse fast, slow.
Urinary: constant urge.
Genital: infections, chlamydia.
Female: menses early, late, painful; uterus fullness, heavy, bearing down, prolapse; sores on genitals; discharge, expels after-birth.
Limbs: tips of fingers and toes cold, chilblains; feet restless, burning, has to be moved; nails crippled; tips of fingers and toes; Raynaud.
Skin: cracks; ulcers, scalds, burns, plague sores; warts around abdomen.