633.44.14 Hyphaene compressa, CaseCase by Martin Jakob.
Woman, 41, anger.
She has recurrent throat infections.
She is constantly angry with her little daughter and her husband.
Her daughter is afraid of her; she sometimes startles with fear when her mother is nearby. She does not want to be a bad mother. She wants to have a harmonious family, a cosy family, everybody should know what the others think and feel; no fights. The family circumstances are narrowing her life because her husband is handicapped after an accident. This means that he spends a lot of time at home and they are together most of the day. She thinks she cannot send her husband away from home and that means no freedom for her. On the other hand, it is as if they want to be together all the time. When they are at home, on different floors of the house, they look for each other. She does not like to go out, she wants to stay with her daughter and her husband but it feels very closed. She is not interested in tenderness or sex any more. She is colourful in style, self-confident and very emotional, sometimes even hysterical. She is talkative and speaks about her problems in a very casual way.
AnalysisSilicon series,
Monocots: relationship problems; very emotional; attracts attention, hysterical.
Phase 4,
Commelinoids: relation stable, responsible, following the rules; things are obvious, rigid.
Subphase 4,
Arecales: she does not question the situation with her relationship, it feels fixed, settled.
Stage 14: formal relationship, no tenderness, no sexual intimacy, boring, routine.
Follow upAfter
Hyphaene compressa 200K she is no longer angry, she is calm and balanced. She spends more time outside the house. She can have more space from her husband and daughter. She has more freedom from her husband and does not get lulled into staying close to him all the time.