Author: Jan Scholten
They try to please others and especially, their lover. They give in easily. They tend to be so adaptable that they are not seen. They can become invisible. That makes that their spouse is often negating them, not seeing them.
They tend to give more than they get back. They live for their love to such a degree that there's no living space for them, no air for them to breathe. The air is there but they cannot reach it because they give of themselves too much. In the end they feel that they are empty, that they have given all in vain and nothing comes back. Then they become irritable, making nasty remarks, or express their irritation constantly. They seem to have thorns.