Author: Jan Scholten
They are in a situation where they feel responsible for the family, the image and fortune of the family. They have to take of that the family and its fortune will be maintained. They feel they have to bring forth offspring, to get children who can take things over later. In this situation they can feel used, as if their needs are not met. They like to have a lover, someone who is there only for them. But that often conflicts with their responsibilities. They feel that when they will follow their own desires they will be disgraced by family and friends, being seen as dirty and egotistical.
They have a strong family connection, living together and even a bit retired from the world, as in an ivory tower.
Celibacy, cloister, nun, asexual.
Female: infertility; getting no spouse and children.
Silly, self absorbed.
Scholten J. Nosy Be provings. Utrecht. 2014.