3-444.16.09
Case by Jan Scholten.
Man, 40 years old, relationship problems.He has difficulties with his wife. He has a strong sexual desire and pushes his wife for sex too much. He feels he owns her, that she is his property as they are married. This comes from his islamic upbringing. He feels lost and on his own when his wife and daughter travel to their home country for some weeks.
He was very successful in studies, high school and university. But he never had many friends. He felt lonely at the university, an outsider, as if he was missing something, unable to make contact. He only had friends in other cities. He wanted to have more friends, especially girlfriends, for having fun. He has had short relationships, but they stopped because he was very jealous and too eager for sex. He felt lonely when they split up.
His mother wants him to come back to his home country.
He had nightmares, as if he had to stay awake.
He is very reserved, on his own. He is not expressive, a bit unemotional.
AnalysisPteridophyta: culturally rigid ideas, norms; emotionally flat; lack of empathy.
Iron series: functioning well.
Phase 6: needing much, not getting what he wants.
Stage 13: anger, held in.
Prescription: 3-444.16.13, Lepisorus macrophaerus.
DD:
Gymnospermae: cultural, religious norms.
Follow upAfter six weeks he feels much better. He has been in homeopathic treatment for many years, but this remedy is by far better than all the other ones. It has brought a lot of good. He is more tolerant, to his wife, his daughter and at his work. He is really more positive. He is happy on waking, willing to do something. His sleep is better and refreshing.
He got more recognition and good feedback at his work. He is more confident and social and can more easily approach people. He no longer feels stressed at work. He is more content and feels he is belonging, whereas in the past he felt not belonging to a group when he saw them having fun.
His Quality of life went from 65 to 80.
In the past
Europium oxydatum has helped him very much.