654.12.13 Boisduvalia densiflora, CaseWoman, 37, depression, fatigue
She says that her marriage is not what she has expected from it. Her husband spends his time with his hobbies and she has to stay at home with the children. It is obvious that he is a couch potato and has a relaxed time and she runs the household and the children. She feels restricted as a woman, for example she cannot go out with friends when she wants and that her work as housewife and mother does not count for much. Her mother was very obedient and never dared to answer back to her husband. She is grumpy with her husband but does not openly argue with him and does not tell him what bothers her. If she tries to discuss her needs, he puts it in a way as if she is only imagining there is a problem, as if nothing has happened, as if everything is fine. It is the end of the story, no discussion. She thinks it would be better if she was really alone with her kids.
AnalysisSilver series: dissimilarity between man and woman.
Phase 2:
Onagraceae; minor position as a woman, adapting, subordinate, follows the rules of her husband, belittled and humiliated.
Stage 13: grumpy, no open argument, thinks she is better alone.
Follow upAfter
Boisduvalia densiflora 200K she had an open argument with her husband. She explained to him that she could not take this kind of relationship with him any much longer, that she wants to have a “real life“ with him. Since then he recognises her needs better. Her depression and fatigue are much better.