Author: Jan Scholten
Broken relationships Tension Congestion
Uncertain relationships Relaxation
Excluded Enjoying life
Fear of narrow spaces
Quarrels make it impossible to enjoy life.
Breaking off a relationship in order to avoid quarrels.
Assertiveness leads to quarrels.
Enjoying quarrels: sadomasochism.
Pacifism is the only thing that provides relaxation.
Aggression is a release of tension.
Essence: quarrels make it impossible to enjoy life.
Quarrels make it impossible to enjoy life
They like to build up a proper relationship because they need it to feel good about themselves. They like to enjoy the good things in life together with their partner. But because they feel so tense inside they can’t help but quarrel, usually about minor issues. They don’t like it and try to hold it in, but this only makes matters worse. The release of aggression usually happens at parties or other festive occasions, so that every outing gets marred by their inability to contain their tension.
Breaking off a relationship in order to avoid quarrels
They may feel forced to break off a relationship. This happens when different relations can’t get on with each other and there is always tension between one or more of them. They may decide that it is better to break with one in order to save the other. Such a situation may also come about through jealousy of their partner;’ You have to choose, it is either her or me!’
Aggression as a release of tension
Their tendency to suppress their anger leads to a feeling of inner tension. This tension may suddenly explode in a terrible fit of anger. Or they may feel an almost uncontrollable urge to use violence towards anyone who puts them under pressure, the tension in their body running out of control.
Pacifism is the only way out for them.
They may even use pacifism as an idealistic cause to ‘fight for’. They go around proclaiming that nobody should quarrel because it leads to tension in the world and stops people from enjoying the beauty of everything.
Enjoying quarrels: sado-masochism
In extreme cases we may see this theme expressed in the form of sado-masochism. These people can only enjoy things that are associated with violence.
Fears: narrow spaces !!, tunnels, caves, shops, lifts, planes, trains, cars, queues, being locked in, fainting, cancer, heart diseases, blood, death, vague, unknown, life, strangers, future, travelling, flying, open spaces, streets, failure, insects, spiders, snakes, aggression !!, criticism.
Dreams: falling, dead relations, marriage, parties, exhausting, abandoned.
Irritability: irritable, sadomasochism.
Mood: hurried, restless, impatient, discontented, moody, depressed, hypochondria.
Desires: star ! patterns on clothes and earrings.
Causes: loss of parents and relations.
Type: obese !!.
Weather: cold, < cold hands, > outside.
Perspirations: stains the linen.
Time: < 7 and 9 am: < summer; sudden and periodical complaints.
Desires: meat, fruit, refreshing and raw food, fried food, sweet, vegetables, fried bacon, !!, fat, fatty meat, bacon, ham, cheese !!, salt, fizzy drinks.
Aversion: fat !!, cheese !!, bacon, ham, meat, vegetables.
Food: < cheese, fat, bacon, beans, coffee, sweet.
Menses: < night; dark blood; stains the linen.
Physical: >< pressure, pressure of clothes, < jars, > driving, > bending double, < touch; << great changes in atmospheric pressure.
The discharges are putrid and stinking.
pains are congestive, pulsating !!, stitching as of a splinter !! with redness, swelling and heat.
Spasms, cramps, colic, neuralgias.
Hot flushes !!, < night, < after urination. Floating sensation.
Nose: crusts difficult to dislodge and painful. Sneezing.
Colds with fullness in head on the side he is lying on. Allergies.
Hyperthyroidism. Hyperventilation, feeling suffocated.
Feeling as if the oesophagus moved towards the back.
Heart and vascular diseases !!; angina pectoris, heart cramp. Palpitations, arrhythmia.
Arteriosclerosis. Claudication. Cerebral haemorrhage.
Stomach cramps with eructations and vomiting bile.
Liver and gallbladder problems !!.
Abdominal pains with distension, much rumbling, flatus and eructations. Acrid diarrhoea.
Inflammations of joints of hands with congestion, swelling and stiffness.
Complaints of muscles, teeth and nails.
Skin: red spots, allergy, gangrene, necrosis.
DD Carbon series, Silicon series, Stage 2, Anacardium, Fluoratums, Muriaticums, Staphysagria.