4.17 Stage 17EssenceThis personality is in a situation of eradication, all has to be erased. Things have to be ceased, extinguished, abolished, aborted and finalised. One can be forced to quit or flee, being expelled as an outcast. One has to let go of everything, even forget memories. It can make one free, loose from bonds. Or one can let things go with humour. The opposite is to hold on to things, even taking them without asking.
Final End Letting goOne has come to the end of the line. There’s nothing more to be done, it doesn’t matter anymore. Whatever you do, it won’t make any difference. Letting go is the key phrase of this Stage. Even the thought of holding on to the past is a temptation that isn’t really appropriate anymore. But they like to hold on because they dare not let go. This is exactly what they have to learn. Even the thoughts of what they once had (
Stage 16) should now be released. Letting go is often accompanied by feelings of pain, disappointment, sadness and guilt. But as soon as they realise that letting go is really the best they can do for themselves, they will have moved a big step forwards. This is the strength of
Stage 17. As long as they keep fighting it they will suffer more pain and sadness.
Holding onThe opposite of letting go is holding on. They may have the feeling that they simply can’t let go, or mustn’t let go. So they hold on with a kind of desperation that is not natural in the overall cycle of events. It is like holding on when you are about to die and it is time to release your grip on life.
Demanding Uncontrolled
They may become very uncontrolled in their behaviour. If they have to let go of things anyway, why not let go completely? So they might grab what they can in an uncontrolled and inappropriate manner. Sometimes this results in unreasonable and demanding behaviour. It can even lead to aggression and criminal acts, ‘it doesn’t matter anymore, so what the hell’.
Condemned Outcast Exiled FleeingThey feel that they are an outsider, exiled from the group. But they still feel they deserve to have a place in the group with all the privileges that go with it. They may feel condemned, banned from the group, as if their exile is unconditional and final, and they don’t have a chance of reprieve. If they feel that this exile was justified they also suffer from feelings of guilt.
Crime LiesAs an outsider they don’t need to hold on the rules or laws of the group. And when they don’t get what they need and deserve they take it without asking. They know that they haven’t been all that honest, so it is best to break off all contact and flee. They would no longer be accepted as a part of the whole anyway. They don’t belong anymore, they are about to be kicked out of the house, so it is best to leave of their own free will, before things get even worse.
MindClimax, extremes. Mood: active.
KeywordsErase, eradicate, extinguish, finish, abort, quit, cease, close, end, stop, leave, forget, abandon, hold, take, demand, uncontrolled, climax, condemned, outcast, fleeing, refugee, exile, expel, exclude, extravagant, excommunicated, expiry, extortion, humour, betrayed, cheated, lie, ulcer, attacked; the preposition “out” or “ex”.
GeneralWeather: warm, worse or better at sea.
BodyDiseases: syphilis.
Lymph glands are hard, painful and swollen. Emaciation in spite of good appetite.
DDStage 16 feels they can still dream about the past. At
Stage 17 everything, even the thoughts of the past have to be released. Hydrogen sometimes has no boundaries either, but they are very idealistic, they like to keep everything intact.
Fluor we see an empty person.
Fluor: banned because of egotism, sex, or being who they are.
Fluor defeats the dragon, and the sexuality reaches the state of orgasm.
Chlorum has the climax in relationships, between mother and child.
Chlorum: a person without a relationships or family.
Bromium is without work or responsibilities.
Bromium: banned because they haven’t done their job, banned by people from the village.
Iodum: banned because of his ideas, banned by the governor.
Iodum is devoid of ideas.
Astatinum: banned because of abuse of power, banned by the king.