Buxus sempervirens

Remedy code: 3-643.17.14
A young mother, 22 years old, with a 6-month-old baby. She talks about her emotions, almost surprised by her reactions. She has a light and elegant build, an open expression, fragile but seems grounded as if she is standing firm in a fortress. There is increasing irritation, which has been present for a while but she was able to brush it off. Since the birth of her child, it has become unbearable. It starts with her disliking all the comments from her husband and exploding. At first, she didn’t even notice it herself. When something is said, she doesn’t know if it’s a joke or criticism. She can feel this way towards anyone. She lives in a small village community where everyone acts "as they should," but she doesn’t feel bothered by it. At home, she was the oldest; she started forming her own opinions but "had to listen" and set a good example, which she often heard. It gave her a lot of irritation; she didn’t want to be home anymore due to the tension between "making her own choices" and "listening because they’re your parents." She often holds back, starts growling, speaking hastily, or slamming doors, or sits with her hands clasped. She feels the tension rising, which can also manifest as unreasonable behavior. She experiences it as unfair, "they don’t listen, everyone looks at you like you’re from Mars." Previously, she had PMS with irritation and a lot of abdominal pain. She can’t fall asleep, staying awake from every little sound. She is tired, her head hurts, it just "explodes." Her head is constantly "buzzing," "I have to take care of the baby, and later I won’t sleep again." She doesn’t want to go anywhere anymore, sits at home on the couch, and doesn’t want to visit family, but when she does, she enjoys it. She dreads going anywhere. She has had discussions about dealing with her parents and feels insecure but also wants to make her own choices. Her parents said, "You still live at home, so it’s according to our rules." They didn’t have a close-knit family; everyone did their own thing, and much of the care and attention went, and still goes, to a handicapped sister. They always had to consider her, as a child she felt like her sister was favored. Another brother had behavioral problems and never listened to their parents. Her parents discussed many of their problems with her. Previously, her sleep was good, and in her dreams, she was always the hero, they were wonderful dreams. Now, she is busy at home, having worked in healthcare, which she enjoyed, but she was always afraid she didn’t know enough. She chose healthcare because she felt it was something she had to do—care as an ideal.AnalysisSeveral possibilities arise; her independence points to the Lanthanide theme, while her approach and motherhood, combined with her position at home, suggest Europium salts. The strong irritation also aligns with Thea chinensis. However, the tension between independence and her ideas is not so much about autonomous or magical thinking, or seeing responsibilities as we expect in Gold series, but more about doing things herself, and achieving in society, the village, connecting Iron series. We look at the broader picture, "sensitivity to" and "focus on," or you could say, "What kind of world does she live in," what plays a significant role in her life? Iron series3: Her family life growing up and now her own family and relationship align with Silicon series, and her choice to engage with the world, and society, seeking or having personal responsibility fits Iron series. The morals at home (Silicon series) versus society or her household (Iron series). We look in Gold series43 for an appropriate Phase.
Phase 1: Explosions, ideals.
Phase 7: Wanting to leave home, had enough and want to go out of it, no connection anymore "as if I’m from Mars." Within the Buxaceae family, only two plants are listed in Qjure, and the stage is recognizable.
Stage 14: It’s no use; they don’t listen anyway, there’s nothing to be done.
The interpretation of Stage, Phase, and Class as described above has often been successfully applied. Always remember that the examples given in Wonderful Plants and Qjure are possible scenarios, often untested impressions from proof. Work in analysis from the abstractions, the keywords of Class, Phase, and Stage. From successful case studies, you can often reason backward to interpret the classification and ordering in Qjure. Here we see the conflict between "home, family" (Silicon series) and "society" (Iron series) playing out within herself. The theme of having her ideas and an ideal world is reflected in her dreams as a hero.
Prescription: Buxus sempervirens C30.Follow-upSoon after taking the remedy, she feels calm, no longer gets worked up, the tension disappears, and there are no more outbursts. Since she lives far away, only a phone report was made. Six months later, she returns with another issue. it is a case of Oystria.