Author: Jan Scholten
They have a strong feeling of having two poles. At one hand they feel very good, special, intelligent and remarkable. At the other hand they feel stupid, dirty, and worth nothing. As a child they feel they cannot fulfill the expectations of their parents in respect to relationships and education. As a parent they cannot fulfill their own expectation and thus feel a worthless parent.
The situation can arise form a divorce where the children feel split between the parents. Or where they feel the family image has broken down.
Ailments from chaos, tension at home.
Guilty form making mistakes, being clumsy, breaking things.
Skin: eczema, all over, dirty.