Author: Jan Scholten
The Lindelofia longiflora personality is easily used and abused by others as it wants to please and easily feels guilty of not having done enough. It easily feel not seen or heard, especially by a parent who neglects them and is absent. This personality is easily worn out, the more so as it wants to help others.
Feels not feel taken seriously, with disease, abuse, and problems.
Overwhelmed from work for her children.
Not allowed to be a problem or burden for others.
Helping, all people, attracts sick people.
Feels guilty very quickly, for leaving a friends out.
The „nice one".
Drained, exhausted, worn out, from care for her kids, inviting lots of people, making it perfect for everyone else.
Feels worthless, loses self esteem.
Interest in family constellation and psychotherapy.
Perfectionist, in work, household, education.
Mother very strict, always right, never understanding her.
Desire to be seen, that she is perfect, having everything under control.
Auto-immune diseases, psoriatic arthritis.
Vertigo: dizzy, easily seasick.
Limbs: joints stiff, painful.