Case by Maarten van der Meer
She is a single mother with a lot of restlessness, fatigue, and stress feeling, she has problems with her child. She calls herself high sensitive. A child needs steadfast parents, but in her case, there is uncertainty, tension, and fear of failure: 'How on earth am I going to manage that, there is always doubt. It rattles in my head, I have to think of everything. On rising in the morning she is already thinking 'how am I going to get this done today'. Her energy hangs forward, it fans out, it makes her vulnerable and attracts attention, but as soon as she thinks, the distribution of energy is good and she radiates certainty. She usually waits a while before she says something, she goes first to think if it was said well and heard if there are words to match the impressions she received. “I always feel first when I enter somewhere, only then do I look. How are the people, how are they doing? I never say that, I think I'm the only one with that. I can't talk about it, that causes problems, and confusion. The past, I can't look at that now, it's too painful. I think”. She is sensitive, she experiences everything very intensely, she doesn't just step over things. That anger came after her ex left, sports help. She is angry with “the father” of her child, he fooled her, she never freaked out, she was afraid he would do weird things. She got a new home, people are loud, and there is yelling and aggression. Where did I end up? I can't hold the peace. Fatigue makes her float, she doesn't feel grounded, she feels it going from left to right in her head. She used to always dream very intensely and noisily, her roommates would often laugh at this. Experiencing it intensely: as if it hit like a bomb, she let it paralyze her. She used to feel very small then. Now she has experienced so much, she gets over it, she knows she can handle it. If something intense happens, she is disabled. The first year of the relationship problem she was so ‘in her head’, otherwise, she would have been able to recognize it. She doesn't want to make that mistake again, not being there, not recognizing everything. It's always weighing and weighing. She wants to be more steadfast and to feel more confident, she thinks about giving up her job. She is allergic to “having to,” which makes her rebellious. Now she has to work for money, has to put everything aside, has to hold back. She experiences work as stifling, she has to put up with the stress, she has trouble not barking back. Earlier in the family, she was also sensitive, she was always quiet in the family. The others were in the foreground, she was inside herself. Her mother, like herself, is negative, her father is very positive, and balanced. She had a normal childhood, she was sporty, water always attracted her, and it calmed her down. She reacts strongly to people, mostly she is shy, sometimes outgoing. Her hobby as a child was acting, in musicals she had the leading roles. Why acting: everyone finds you funny, but it can also implode into being insecure. Being fun and funny. You see her constantly swaying, balancing in the way she talks, moving. Looking a little ahead, searching. She used to be negative, even depressed, if something didn't go well she would linger in it. That was that dramatic in her. Now she tries to overcome it, and not get caught up in that, in the feeling of failure and failure, it does cost her energy and strength. Her first reaction is always: I'm not doing it right, it's my fault. At her previous work, she collapsed because of work, she was bothered by a sexist colleague, and she filed a complaint, everything was upside down and the whole department was torn apart. Her hobbies are sports, reading, making music, something with her hands, drawing, sailing, and being outside. Her intuition says: come on, you can do it, girl. On the other hand, she brings herself down.
Dreams: about a desert, drought, surreal. She feels like a walking powder keg, she can't get those layers of pent-up anger out. She has palpitations at the left clavicle or the neck. Her ex she sees every week, would like to scold him. She is often lost in thought. She cannot release the anger, not to anyone, she is afraid that if it all comes loose, she will collapse. The anger has become explosive. Occasionally she cries out, in the car. Her stomach is often bloated. Regularly she has dizziness with emotions. Anger has been surfacing lately. Constantly she has to filter. Before she was a spontaneous girl, which has been punished for that severely a few times. You have to be careful how you say it, and what you do, it can be hurtful. A filter since puberty, giving only the desired responses.
Molybdenum,
Tantalum, and
Argentum cyanatum did nothing.
AnalysisStage 5 fits her doubt, the weighing and weighing.
Stage 6 fits the fact that she will do it, and persevere for her child. Based on the sensitivity, the feeling around, the holding in of anger, her softness, the way she communicates, the
Malvales family was chosen. She feels the environment, she withholds emotions, she withholds her voice, and she dares not express her opinion.
Prescription:
Daphne indica MK.
Follow upShe has quickly become calmer and now has a mellow, soft voice. She feels less stressed, less with herthoughts and feelings in the past, at the pain, and all those states. She is more resilient to comments from others, she doesn't let it overwhelm her anymore. It affects her less, she no longer lies awake about it. There is less “static” charge, around her. She feels less worked up, even at work she feels calmer and makes fewer mistakes. She pays less cramped attention to ‘time’, she has less anxiety and anxiety sweat. The palpitations are gone, but the anger is still there. During the conversation, she sits and plays with her fingers a lot. The abdomen is calmer. Dreaming: about a dolphin, that was beautiful, it was almost real. I touched him, he belonged to me, with the snout. I was underwater myself. Another dolphin, a man, was jealous. The dolphin I had contact with was a woman. Three months later, she is softer, calmer more expectant, fuller, and no longer tense. In between, a lot of sadness surfaced once, which relieved me. Beforehand, she had a very nervous feeling for a time. She now gets bothered by coffee, then she feels tense. The bloated belly is over. At work something strikes her, there are now even men who say hello to her.