Author: Jan Scholten
The main conflict is that of being autonomous and wanting to be part of a family or a group. The problems often start in puberty with a conflict between individuality and family. They are often too sensitive, perceiving what goes wrong, looking through the hypocrisy of others. This means that they get misunderstood. Others do not understand them or their spiritual feelings and insights.
They do not know if relationships can survive with individuality, autonomy and spirituality.
They do not know if they can stay independent when they are married.
Friends versus family.
Autonomy versus friends.
Delusion: being a loner, single, a stranger.