Author: Jan Scholten
They have a strong dipole of adaptation and pleasing and at the other hand the feeling of being taken advantage of. Due to their pleasing tendency they easily be used and abused by others. And that will give them a bad feeling, a annoyance and grudge. This will be even more the case when they are not appreciated and taken for granted. They want to be special and shine. But they often lack the courage to go for it ands ask for appreciation.