Author: Jan Scholten
There is a conflict between being loyal and wanting to go their own way. They solve the conflict by staying loyal and pleasing on the one hand and breaking out of the ties from time to time on the other hand. They do not want to fight or quarrel with their relatives, friends and colleagues. They prefer to have good and harmonious relations, they try to make everyone happy. On the other hand they cannot fulfill all the wishes of others an so go their own way. It is like living together and being separate at the same time. It is being very close and not knowing much of the other. It is better that other do not know to much in order not to get entangled too much.
Extramarital relationships and children.
Scholten J.; Veils of Vision; Stichting Alonnissos, Utrecht; 2014.