EssenceThis personality has unequal relationships row three, due to having affairs. He can try to change the other, change and open sexual woman into a model figure sexless partner. Or she was an open woman and has become closed, avoiding intimacy. Or he wants to to cange her into frigidity out of fear she will have affairs.

MindSecrecy, projection, shadowboxing.
Trying to change the other, change and open sexual woman into a model figure sexless partner.