Author: Jan Scholten
Hard, harsh, < having endured harshness of life, imposing harshness onto others.
Lack of softness, gentleness, empathy, tenderness, compassion, caring, love.
Ailments from harsh life and human relations, wounded.
Closed, hard, suppressed sensitivity.
Soft inside, not showing it, rough exterior.
Lack of gentle perseverance and sustaining benevolence.
Fixed idea, tunnel vision, know it all, closed minded.
Not open to the ideas, concepts, thoughts of others; uninterested.
Problem to understand others, listen properly.
Illusion that we hear even when we do not listen.
Lack of gentleness, sensitivity, open heart, sweetness, empathy, care, intimacy, love, joy, closeness.
Hardened, harsh and uncaring, deny all sensitivity, being hard is the only way to survive.
Hardness between loved ones, in couples, family relations.
Contempt, despise for weakness.
Memory problems, forgetful for what they study, problems taking in information.