Campanula rapunculusRemedy code: 3-666.34.05
A 19-year-old boy isn't feeling quite right and doesn't know how to get out of it. It's been months. He doesn't feel like himself and is withdrawn, in his head. Doesn't feel like he's experiencing anything; afterward, he thinks: what was that about, what did I say? Things he used to enjoy, he does now as distractions, so he's not stuck in his head. Lots of spinning thoughts, about school, about an argument.
He gets dizzy in busy situations, and lightheaded. He's especially bothered by noise; he's doing an internship at a school, and he lights up when he says this. He doubts a lot about the things he does, 'is it right what I'm saying,' he used to rely on his feelings. Now he panics if something goes differently, if a child falls if there's an argument, he does act. Afterward, 'Phew, it's calm again.' It's about chaotic situations, then he starts to think, he used to act on impulse, reflex.
Two years ago he unexpectedly passed high school, this education is below his level, he does excellent, but it's never good enough. He received compliment after compliment, but he became more and more perfectionist, and was allowed to take the exam early, which put more pressure on his shoulders.
He thinks 'I have to perform even better,' and finds so many other things enjoyable: he doesn't want to miss out, on football, his girlfriend, or the friend group. He also works. Nice to be busy.
Mother: he shows avoidance behavior, and leaves or goes to his room with headphones on. If you give your opinion, he gets angry, asking him to clean up his room for example.
He is naturally cheerful, happy, and social. I didn't recognize him anymore this year. He increasingly had a negative self-image, even with football. Sleeping is inconsistent, he can wake up out of nowhere, almost every night, and then he's wide awake.
Teaching is very nice, he knew he wanted to do this education after one day of observing.
The neck is very stiff, this does cause headaches: throbbing on the vertex, that's in those chaotic situations, after that bustle, it subsides after half an hour.
Paracetamol allergy got huge itching when was at 6 years old.
Gastrointestinal complaints: lots of abdominal pain, lots of stool, light in color. Also in the past, it starts rumbling and gurgling then. He was always lively in the group, but now he stays in the background. He speaks very maturely and reflectively about himself, in between there is contact, hand on mother's knee, as a form of attention, reassurance to her, in a very natural way, close, uncomplicated, familiar. 'I am 19 years old and I have to decide for myself.' He takes the problems with him and sits down to think about how I can solve them.
AnalysisThe gentleness and his mature way of talking reflect the
Campanulales.
The demeanor, the atmosphere, accommodating yet having a clear opinion, withdrawing into oneself to avoid confrontations. Parent who can confer, are supportive, tenacious and analyzing. From this 'recognition', confirmation has to sought, the parameters of this Plant
Family.
Classe 6: he is very involved. Allergy. Reflecting. He wants to help everyone, keeps thinking about it, sees the shadow of life, discovers, is confronted, stands alone (this burdensome factor is now coming to the fore in his life, fits with his choice, feeling responsibility). What stands out: he is also sensitive, and emotional, underneath the rational and mature behavior.
Phase 3: dizzy, avoids problems, no resistance to too many stimuli, probing, discovering, the question marks of how and what fit with
Stage 3 and
Phase 3.
Phase 4: Being sure from the beginning about education, and taking responsibility. Being sure that he wants this,
Phase 4, probing, not yet being in the right place from
Phase 3.
The basic attitude is waiting (
Phase 3), above that lies a layer, an attitude of 'I want to be sure of this' (fitting with
Subphase 4), his action is doubt.
Stage 5: the situation of doubt in recent times is causing tension,
Stage 5 is a burdensome fact. Postponing.
Prescription: Campanula rapunculus C200
Follow upAfter a week he noticed that he was calmer and took things easier. No more panic, no more unrest in his head, which allows him to sleep better. It was a busy final sprint at school this month, despite that it went well. When he was in front of the class, he managed to calm it down. He has more energy and is better rested. He can keep going longer with football too, after a long day I still have the energy to write a report. He now comes across softly, smiles from his whole face.
At home, they find him more relaxed, and easier to deal with. He finds it difficult to talk about responsibilities, about having to. 'I am more of the let-it-come-to-me type, we'll see.' He can still literally leave, when parents want to talk about his feelings, he doesn't want to talk about it.
Headaches are not as frequent anymore.
For the last few months, since this happened, he doesn't see sharply, and can't always read a digital board.
At night he sees little anyway, during the day since that fatigue, he has been burning the candle at both ends, he thought he had to be able to do everything, but did not know how, that aspect made it a tough year.
Hay fever this time hardly at all. His stomach is still upset, but it's less, not going to the toilet 5 times but 3 times. The neck is still stiff. He looks a lot like his father, who is also has it, insecure, and walks away instead of talking. The years after this continued to go well.