Author: Jan Scholten
They feel isolated at one hand but should belong to a group at the other hand. They feel left out, alone, when other decide for them, overruling them without consultation. They prefer to stay alone, far away from others, in their own reclusion when they are disappointed in others and feel betrayed. The tense situation makes people very cautious, being careful not to do something that may lead to more friction and irritation. They fear that others will see their actions and words as an expression of making one favorite over another, putting the other down at the cost of the first. They cannot make a choice. As a means to avoid the problems they can become philosophical and spiritual to avoid the pain of their own emotions. They fear that everything they say can be used against them.
It can be in relations where one partner is sucking up all the energy, never getting enough and the other has to give as in a well without a bottom.
Cautious, careful, as with a traumatised animal.
Sensation: hurt, misunderstood, left alone.
Desire: to be alone, withdraw
Aversion: civilisation, people.
Desire: contact, people, being cared for.
Sweat: copious, all body.
Scholten J. Nosy Be provings. Utrecht. 2014.