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Cerium oxalicum
Year 2026, Issue 2CaseAuthor: Jürgen Weiland
Silvia born, January 4, 2002 first interview V: father
M: mother
J: JanWhat's the matter with you?V: She came to us when she was 15 months old, she was 5 months with her biological mother.
She was only 20 years old, she was totally overwhelmed, there was an older brother who had a "syndrome" that he had to be ventilated. Then came Sylvia.
When she was with her mother, she spat, got eczema, the mother did not know how to behave. She was sore, she screamed a lot. She then handed her over to her younger sister. Then she came to a foster mother.
Older couple, there were already other handicapped children. They thought they could give her back to the mother, but then she was released for adoption.
She was the child with huge sad eyes.
No one was allowed to look into the pram, otherwise she screamed straight away. No one was allowed to take it any more.
Three-week approach of us as parents. Soon it went very well with us. It was said that she would eat anything, but that became more and more difficult. Then she started vomiting, getting diarrhoea, the whole bottom was open, then she screamed through the whole house.
That took a long time with the vomiting, that happened by the way, she just threw up while playing. Also disgust with her own digestion. Must leave the room quickly when she smells her own chair.
Very odor sensitive, the physical parents do not smell good either. They just stink a lot.
If I ride with her tram and she smells that someone has smoked, then she says "Man, how stinky is that here"!
She wet herself and we wanted to find out why, she didn't want to pee where others did.
She was allowed to leave the room but we could not leave the room.
She only leaves when we are at the side. She freaks out completely when we're not there. We always had to lie down in bed so that she could see us. Couldn't be alone. The dog then died, she did not express any grief about it, she cried only very briefly.V: She simply has more anger at the moment. She hits and hits.
She then provokes the mother, freaks out totally, boycotts, throws herself down,
She's doing this back-and-forth game. Always says I can't, it goes back and forth so long. When we argue as parents then she sits there and sings.
She wants, but she does not accept anything! She then has total panic.
You can't let her scream at night, but where is the border?V: I'm often insecure as a father, I can't judge it, she looks at the wall and then she blows, she just reacts. Every night around 23 o'clock she wakes up. Nights long where she doesn't sleep at night, sometimes she also beats to get in contact. She sometimes beats the dog. She doesn't want you to talk to others.
She always wants to distract and have her attention. She is definitely more related to me. She asks where is Dad?? He should be there.M: When she came to kindergarten, she hit me as a mother. I already felt attacked then.J: What do you do then?M: It was like I could never calm her down as a mother.V: I talk a lot, but I am calmer. I can also drag her along by the leg. We suspect she has been yelled at a lot.
She could only learn everything much later, everything delayed for half a year.
There was no need to join the children's group, she was completely freaked out. Christmas was a song in the church, a cheerful one, she just howled, she fought and couldn't be calmed down.V: A lot of things is when I tell her to do that or that, then she wants help, everything swings up, then she has a seizure that she can vomit out of anger.
She once got Cina, but that didn't help anymore either. Chamomilla also got her, but that didn't help, it rather did the opposite.V: Kindergarten, that's where she likes to go, that's no problem.
Pushes the parents out of the kindergarten. But she's always around the teacher, she always wants to be there. Then someone else has to come so that she is not alone. She just needs someone to hang herself on. She adapts in kindergarten and then it's okay. Close the door, pass by.
She always felt persecuted, thought someone was coming and coming behind her. Panic, run because she thinks she's being followed.J: What's the worst problem?V: that she has to do another test. She's impatient, if it doesn't work out immediately, she throws it away immediately. That's the case with so much. She can't explain anything to herself. If you want to force her to do something, then she defends herself.
V: She sometimes has problems sitting in a circle. She doesn't do what she's supposed to do.
She simply blocks herself completely, she is afraid to take the step.J: When does she block, what does it depend on?V: She can't if you tell her what to do. She immediately says I can't. Then it doesn't work at all.
V: In the game it goes, with order it is wrong!
She is very impatient. Until recently her favourite colour was always black, she painted black rainbows. Now they become more colourful.V: At the bottom there are really red spots. She does not tolerate tomatoes, then everything is immediately red.
She also gets a rash of apple juice. The urine often makes red spots on her bottom.
Bowel movement quickly makes her sore, it burns.
Fruit juices worsen.
Normal tomatoes, then she has itching everywhere.J: Desire?V: Hearty, cheese, olives, nothing too sweet.
J: Dislikes?
V: Sauerkraut, hot spices, but mustard she likes, she doesn't like milk, but she likes quark.
Does not like drinking from cups where others have drunk it.V: She has many talents, but she doesn't even try, she's not daring. She doesn't even try.
But she could already spend hours on her own. Can play board games with the dog for hours. She can be very brash and very commanding. Commanding. At home there she actually only talks.V: She has panic before lint, everything which has longer hair. Dust lint there she can panic. That has to be removed immediately. A few fringes are okay. (what about Hyoscyamus????, so many symptoms of it). J: What's the birth mother like?
V: Drive arm, unkempt, shy, needs someone to tell her what to do.
The father of the biological mother said: "There you can do what you want, you can't go there, that's how she is".V: Mother was abused at the age of 12 years, she has the mind of a 12 year old, suicide attempt with broken glass scuht. There she was 15 years old. They were all beaten a lot. There were many injuries to the mother's body. She has been scolded, yelled at.
The father worked at the fair, he was also in the home. He made only bad experiences in the home. It is also not sure if he really was the father.
After Sylvia there were three more children with the biological mother.
All other siblings were probably also abused at home! Therefore they came away.J: What is the most difficult thing with her?V: that you can't sleep at night, the impatience, that scares me very much. I am afraid that she isolates herself, falls back, isolates herself, excludes herself from her friends. She then goes back to another school, we are worried about the future. J: What is your image for the future?
V: that is wrongly judged, her life is obstructed.
Picture that she comes into a vicious circle.
J: What is it for you, what is the worst?
M: that she doesn't come along, just goes down. That she is sorted out.
J: What is the most difficult thing with her?
M: it's the anger, it really pisses me off, I don't understand.
J: What is it that makes me angry?
M: It's the impatience.
V: she's desperate, I can't stand it anymore.
M: it makes me faint. You do everything and still she totally freaks out. What can you do so that she doesn't always slip into it?
M: I also feel set back, it just annoys me then. You don't have the nerve in the morning.
V: She wakes up at night.
V: When she gets sick, she has ear infections, polyps have been removed, paracentesis and tympanic tubes.
She coughs until she vomits. If she has a cold, she coughs until vomiting. The cough is dry.
She has also had two fever cramps, emergency doctor came.
M: mother
J: JanWhat's the matter with you?V: She came to us when she was 15 months old, she was 5 months with her biological mother.
She was only 20 years old, she was totally overwhelmed, there was an older brother who had a "syndrome" that he had to be ventilated. Then came Sylvia.
When she was with her mother, she spat, got eczema, the mother did not know how to behave. She was sore, she screamed a lot. She then handed her over to her younger sister. Then she came to a foster mother.
Older couple, there were already other handicapped children. They thought they could give her back to the mother, but then she was released for adoption.
She was the child with huge sad eyes.
No one was allowed to look into the pram, otherwise she screamed straight away. No one was allowed to take it any more.
Three-week approach of us as parents. Soon it went very well with us. It was said that she would eat anything, but that became more and more difficult. Then she started vomiting, getting diarrhoea, the whole bottom was open, then she screamed through the whole house.
That took a long time with the vomiting, that happened by the way, she just threw up while playing. Also disgust with her own digestion. Must leave the room quickly when she smells her own chair.
Very odor sensitive, the physical parents do not smell good either. They just stink a lot.
If I ride with her tram and she smells that someone has smoked, then she says "Man, how stinky is that here"!
She wet herself and we wanted to find out why, she didn't want to pee where others did.
She was allowed to leave the room but we could not leave the room.
She only leaves when we are at the side. She freaks out completely when we're not there. We always had to lie down in bed so that she could see us. Couldn't be alone. The dog then died, she did not express any grief about it, she cried only very briefly.V: She simply has more anger at the moment. She hits and hits.
She then provokes the mother, freaks out totally, boycotts, throws herself down,
She's doing this back-and-forth game. Always says I can't, it goes back and forth so long. When we argue as parents then she sits there and sings.
She wants, but she does not accept anything! She then has total panic.
You can't let her scream at night, but where is the border?V: I'm often insecure as a father, I can't judge it, she looks at the wall and then she blows, she just reacts. Every night around 23 o'clock she wakes up. Nights long where she doesn't sleep at night, sometimes she also beats to get in contact. She sometimes beats the dog. She doesn't want you to talk to others.
She always wants to distract and have her attention. She is definitely more related to me. She asks where is Dad?? He should be there.M: When she came to kindergarten, she hit me as a mother. I already felt attacked then.J: What do you do then?M: It was like I could never calm her down as a mother.V: I talk a lot, but I am calmer. I can also drag her along by the leg. We suspect she has been yelled at a lot.
She could only learn everything much later, everything delayed for half a year.
There was no need to join the children's group, she was completely freaked out. Christmas was a song in the church, a cheerful one, she just howled, she fought and couldn't be calmed down.V: A lot of things is when I tell her to do that or that, then she wants help, everything swings up, then she has a seizure that she can vomit out of anger.
She once got Cina, but that didn't help anymore either. Chamomilla also got her, but that didn't help, it rather did the opposite.V: Kindergarten, that's where she likes to go, that's no problem.
Pushes the parents out of the kindergarten. But she's always around the teacher, she always wants to be there. Then someone else has to come so that she is not alone. She just needs someone to hang herself on. She adapts in kindergarten and then it's okay. Close the door, pass by.
She always felt persecuted, thought someone was coming and coming behind her. Panic, run because she thinks she's being followed.J: What's the worst problem?V: that she has to do another test. She's impatient, if it doesn't work out immediately, she throws it away immediately. That's the case with so much. She can't explain anything to herself. If you want to force her to do something, then she defends herself.
V: She sometimes has problems sitting in a circle. She doesn't do what she's supposed to do.
She simply blocks herself completely, she is afraid to take the step.J: When does she block, what does it depend on?V: She can't if you tell her what to do. She immediately says I can't. Then it doesn't work at all.
V: In the game it goes, with order it is wrong!
She is very impatient. Until recently her favourite colour was always black, she painted black rainbows. Now they become more colourful.V: At the bottom there are really red spots. She does not tolerate tomatoes, then everything is immediately red.
She also gets a rash of apple juice. The urine often makes red spots on her bottom.
Bowel movement quickly makes her sore, it burns.
Fruit juices worsen.
Normal tomatoes, then she has itching everywhere.J: Desire?V: Hearty, cheese, olives, nothing too sweet.
J: Dislikes?
V: Sauerkraut, hot spices, but mustard she likes, she doesn't like milk, but she likes quark.
Does not like drinking from cups where others have drunk it.V: She has many talents, but she doesn't even try, she's not daring. She doesn't even try.
But she could already spend hours on her own. Can play board games with the dog for hours. She can be very brash and very commanding. Commanding. At home there she actually only talks.V: She has panic before lint, everything which has longer hair. Dust lint there she can panic. That has to be removed immediately. A few fringes are okay. (what about Hyoscyamus????, so many symptoms of it). J: What's the birth mother like?
V: Drive arm, unkempt, shy, needs someone to tell her what to do.
The father of the biological mother said: "There you can do what you want, you can't go there, that's how she is".V: Mother was abused at the age of 12 years, she has the mind of a 12 year old, suicide attempt with broken glass scuht. There she was 15 years old. They were all beaten a lot. There were many injuries to the mother's body. She has been scolded, yelled at.
The father worked at the fair, he was also in the home. He made only bad experiences in the home. It is also not sure if he really was the father.
After Sylvia there were three more children with the biological mother.
All other siblings were probably also abused at home! Therefore they came away.J: What is the most difficult thing with her?V: that you can't sleep at night, the impatience, that scares me very much. I am afraid that she isolates herself, falls back, isolates herself, excludes herself from her friends. She then goes back to another school, we are worried about the future. J: What is your image for the future?
V: that is wrongly judged, her life is obstructed.
Picture that she comes into a vicious circle.
J: What is it for you, what is the worst?
M: that she doesn't come along, just goes down. That she is sorted out.
J: What is the most difficult thing with her?
M: it's the anger, it really pisses me off, I don't understand.
J: What is it that makes me angry?
M: It's the impatience.
V: she's desperate, I can't stand it anymore.
M: it makes me faint. You do everything and still she totally freaks out. What can you do so that she doesn't always slip into it?
M: I also feel set back, it just annoys me then. You don't have the nerve in the morning.
V: She wakes up at night.
V: When she gets sick, she has ear infections, polyps have been removed, paracentesis and tympanic tubes.
She coughs until she vomits. If she has a cold, she coughs until vomiting. The cough is dry.
She has also had two fever cramps, emergency doctor came.