Author: Jan Scholten
Impulsive relationships Immoral
Changing contacts Breaking taboos
Lack of perseverance Possessions Gambling
Alone Lonely Hard
Closed Silent Superficial
Different contacts in the world of glamour.
Easily hurt by glamour.
Impulsive sexual relationships.
Easily hurt in sexuality.
Withdrawn in sexuality: hidden sex.
Lonely in sex.
Abandoned because of money.
Breaking off all contact and withdrawing.
A lonely psychopath.
Essence: many different contacts in order to belong.
Changing contacts in the glamour world
They are very impulsive in their contacts within the glamour world. They want to belong and be appreciated. They like to sit in cafés and go to nightclubs where they usually drink a lot of alcohol because it makes it easier to talk to all these new people they want to meet.
Easily hurt by the glamour world
They are easily hurt and soon feel they don’t really belong. They soon feel very lonely in this type of society.
Impulsive sexual relationships
They are very quick at making sexual contact. They act on an impulse, partly because they don’t want to be thought of as a coward, because that would mean they didn’t belong anymore. They are easily aroused and they flirt and show off and go for ‘quickies’, just to prove that they have made it, or to suppress their feeling of loneliness.
But they can also be very passionate and have a very intense sexual relationship with one special person. They like to indulge in erotic fantasies and games like bondage. A typical theme is that they can’t make up their mind anymore whether they want to have sex or not. For instance, a girl will meet a boy in a cafe and she will feel that she has to go to bed with him, even though she has only just met him.
Hidden sex: incest
A very characteristic situation is that of incest, the taboo that nobody is allowed to talk about. This often happens in societies where the subject of sex is taboo altogether, where the children are not told anything about the subject so that they grow up in ignorance and confusion. The result is that they simply allow it to happen, hoping that the desire will come afterwards, or that it will at least relieve them of their deep loneliness.
Easily hurt by sex
They are easily hurt and often feel very vulnerable about anything to do with sex.
Alone for fear of sex
They feel they can’t refuse to have sex although they don’t like it. That is why they would rather avoid meeting people. It is a sort of self denial. In fact they deny the possibility of having their their own say in the matter. They may also feel very alone during coition and cry afterwards.
Abandoned because of money
They are always very concerned about money because they are afraid of not having enough. They start to keep accounts of how much they spend on others, because they are afraid that other people won’t like them anymore when they have nothing left to spend. They inevitably get very disappointed when others ignore them because they have run out of money.
Breaking off all contact and withdrawing
When they have been disappointed they tend to withdraw into themselves. They feel so hurt that they will break off all relationships without a second thought. They feel nobody cares about them anyway so they they might as well be abrupt and go and live by themselves.
Alone and hard
This behaviour seems hard, but is is a form of self protection. Another form of self protection is to get very loud and vulgar, screaming and shouting like a fishwife.
A lonely psychopath
In extreme circumstances they may start to manifest criminal behaviour, torturing others without a second thought. When their conscience starts to speak they suppress it so quickly that they don’t have time to listen, so that it looks as if they have no conscience at all.
Fear: vague !!, unknown, poverty !!, murder, life, strangers, future, travelling, flying, open spaces, crowds, failure, disease death.
Dreams: sex, hermaphrodites, transsexual, incest, toilet, naked, olive green circles, snakes, everything bursting into flames.
Mood: depressed, listless, meaningless, obsessive, suicidal.
Aggression: aggressive, kleptomania.
Causes: humiliation, noise, puberty.
Weather: warm, < heat, < sun, > outside.
Perspiration: cold sweat under the arms.
Time: < 11 am and 9 pm.
Desires: salt, fish, starch, alcohol !!, spices, fresh, sour.
Aversion: sour !!, fish, milk, sprouts, fruit.
Sleep: on left side.
Physical: > motion, violent motion.
Lymph glands hard, painful, swollen; abscesses and fistula.
Hair very thin.
Affections of teeth, caries.
Arteriosclerosis. varicose veins.
Vaginitis; leucorrhoea yellow/green, thin, sticky, burning, < before menses, < coition; urethritis, sexual diseases, chlamydia, trichomonas and gardnerella.
Carcinoma of cervix, sexual complaints, retained placenta.
Arthritis with malformation of hands. Hypermobile joints and ligaments !!.
Malformation of bones, exostoses !!.
DD: Carbon series, Stage 16, Aceticums, Nitricums, Muriaticums, Sulphuricums, Veratrum, Ferrums.