Author: Jan Scholten
They have problems keeping their autonomy and independence in relationships, especially with close family. They worry about their parents being sick, or their husband depressed or their children handicapped. It ask very much of them, often too much. They feel drained and sucked empty. AT the other hand it is evident that they will do they duty, there is no doubt about that. This the more so because love them. It is just too much to do it all. But they feel incapable to help them, to give them pleasure and make them happy. This is the more so because they also want to live their own life, go out with friends
Limbs: arthritis, hip, knee; stitcihng pains < walking, < exertion.