Jan Scholten


They have to please others in order to be accepted by the group and to get into a position of distinction. They want to be special, have a special position in society as a manager or teacher, as an artist or scientist. They like to be revered for their unique qualities. But they feel that they have to hold themselves in, in order to be appreciated. They feel they can only half be themselves and half the personality demanded by family or society. They feel they have to suppress half of themselves, their anger, their sexuality, their weird and chaotic ideas. They fear being humiliated when expressing their unwanted sides, their shadow side. It leads to conflicts of loyalty, in their family, with their parents, in their marriage, in society.
They like to be seen as warm and lovely, to be loved by everybody. In order to attain that they can be quite outgoing, showing that they are there. As a child they have the same strong desire for a bond, mostly with the mother.

Loyal, desire to belong to a group; deny parts of themselves to belong to the group.
Aversion: anger, quarrels, conflicts, disharmony.
Ailments from showing emotions, anger, convictions, feelings.
Airy, untidy, transitory; ungrounded.
Sensitive, to noise.
Mirth, cheerful, excitement, affectionate.
Reserved, hold in their anger.
Theme: cotton; slime.
Split between love and sex.
Suppressing their anger, aggression, sexuality.
Desire to be loved, appreciated.
Desire: harmony, art, knowledge, culture, music.
Fear: separation.
Delusion: separated from the world; being alone; being watched.
Delusion: split, confusion of identity.
Dreams: murder; death; accident; death of a friend.

Sensation: bond, attachment and loss of connection, wind.
Weather: intense cold.
Sweat: profuse, < night.
Desire: sweet, juicy, fresh; tobacco; chocolate.
Aversion: cheese; chocolate; coffee.
Food: > eating.

Vertigo: < riding in a car, tramcar, at sea, < roundabouts, roller coaster.
Nervous: paralysis; tendency to fall, sideways.
Eyes: eruptions, lateral canthi.
Nose: pain, root; sinusitis, chronic, ethmoid.
Mouth: eruptions, corners.
Throat: inflammation; voice hoarse, lost.
Stomach: anxiety.
Heart: palpitation.
Female: miscarriage; milk scanty; lactation problems; infertility; dysmenorrhoea.
Back: backache, as giving way, < bending forward.
Skin: hard; thick callosities; cracks, deep and bleeding; eruption, itching, scratching till raw.